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Love Marriage . . Boon or Bane

By Shailendra Chamoli

Marriages are made in heaven, so goes the saying. It happens when your stars are quite compatible and favourable. Otherwise, it takes time to materialise a good marriage.

These days’ youths are opting for love marriages. “How can I marry a man whom I don’t know,” said a girl, who came to consult me. However, her horoscope showed that she would go for love marriage but it would be unsuccessful. However, she did not heed to my advice and now she is a divorcee, living alone.

By studying your horoscope, astrologers can predict what type of boy would come to your life and the direction he lives or works. Young people should not go by the status of two families. Some time a rich girl is destined to marry a middle class boy or vice versa. Venus in the birth chart decides your marriage prospects.

Whether there is a provision of two marriages in your life or you would be cheated by your partner can be found out from your horoscope. If the position of Venus is good, you may get good marriage proposals. Precaution is better than cure. If Venus is neech ka (debilitated), ast ka (combust) or vakr (retrograde), remedial measures can be taken.

Marriage chart in your horoscope tells at what age you must get married, otherwise you remain bachelor or spinster throughout your life. Delayed marriages, if resorted to under compulsion, put your life plan in jeopardy. In that case, children go to school and parents get retired. 

When Venus and Jupiter are situated in 1st, 4th, 7th and 10th house, prospects of marriage are powerful. If any member of your family is feeding birds, eligible bachelors will not get married due to rejections from other parties. It’s not essential that a mangalik boy  should marry a mangalik girl.  Astrological advice can sort it out.

In the country of Swayamvera, Indian women enjoy precedence over the choice of their husbands; still they need to take such a decision with wisdom rather than going by emotions. Cine star Aishwarya Rai finally chose Abhishek Bachchan after trying out her friendship with Salman Khan and Vivek Oberoi. Since she has beauty and brain, she took a decision to marry a wonderful family. It’s not a marriage between two individuals but getting together of two families also.

Most of the ordinary women are bundle of emotions; they should use their brain

keeping in view the reality of the situation with a future perspective. Young girls just see the boy and not the family or vice versa. Marriage is a turning point in every body’s life. But marriages these days are going kaput simply because people choose their life partners with emotional baggage rather than using their brain with a vision. That’s why most of the love marriages are not successful.

In love affairs, youngsters don’t take parents into confidence. If our youngsters keep their affairs transparent by sharing the details of their boy friends or girl friends with parents, the love marriage can be turned into an arranged marriage. Due to parental opposition, some youngsters either elope away or commit suicide. Our youngsters are not able to distinguish between love, lust and simply infatuation.

My advice is that please do consult an astrologer if you feel your love could be transformed into an arranged marriage. If a person gets a good spouse, the real lucky period starts from there. Some time stars combination is good, match is good, but mahurat is not good, and things go awry.

Children, who are devoid of parental love, try to search for love outside the family and get involved in love affairs. They elope away or get court marriages, creating controversies. Inter-religious and inter-caste marriages do create social tension. All this can be predicted by studying the horoscope.